chapter 1 - skinny. I guess because it came from someone else. I would really enjoy my wife gaining weight, but shes a gym rat. Im realizing that as I put on some weight. She's 381 now; her goal was 375, but when she was 365, she moved her goal to 400. The same could be asked of thin people and some of the toxic culture and expectations around always being extremely in shape. It would be wonderful if we didnt ascribe any meaning at all to someones weight. If you do not receive your email shortly, please check your spam folder. Thats why everyone should remain careful about these causes. Sophie-X. Her sweet tooth is out of control, and I make sure it stays that way by having a constant supply of her favorites on hand at all times. Now my motivation is gonebecause of her and I really hope to get it back. My husband loves me and says how sexy I look and can't take his hands off me. Now, she says, his 6-ft.-1-inch frame is "more than a little fleshy and mushy" and the weight . There are trade offs he needs to understand. When Having An Affair Is An Act Of Self-Care, Karly & Deb Found A Simple Way Of Making Long Distance Work, Caroline & Nat First Met At A House Party Over A Decade Ago, Get Even More From Bustle Sign Up For The Newsletter. If hes defensive, thats understandable, if frustrating. Sounds nice. Cookie Notice I wish and Im fairly certain youd agree that weight didnt have such a cultural significance placed on it. I got back into my seat, sat up straight, and looked directly at Jonathan. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. A lot of women can't get past the fact that a tall, fit, active guy has a wife that's bigger around and wider than she is tall. That will make her feel confident and beautiful and want her to keep those extra pounds for her appreciative man! On top of that, he has everything to lose from you saying it. Plump is the new normal. 9. About a year later we got married, and she was around 225. Privacy Policy. Like him I've put on some weight to. Am sure my husband would like to feed me but I don't think he knows how to approach the subject. In that case, you probably like the way he is getting fat. It hasnt been bad. Women not only liking but encouraging by over feeding their husbands. Is finding clothes for them a challenge? Be honest with yourself and him as to what you desire as well. Why fight it? At no point in that decade-long . It's never just "A Little". Fat people | My Husband makes comments about my weight. Same personality. Iam very big girl now at all most 400 pounds and Ive been married for 6 years my husband adores me loves me am very happy and glad of the attention. FWIW, he was pretty thin before, and he's now a few pounds shy of 200, apparently. So if the doctor has said that your husband has obesity health risks and you didnt fully understand what they mean by skinny fat, now you know why. Follow us for the best, hand picked confessions. I have been determined to let myself be a total glutton--more than before we's got married. I try to counter this overwhelming guilt by making healthier foods or encouraging him to go out to the gym with me, but he never commits. No. Shes definitely into me - been married 20 years! Sometimes I would require him to keep eating in the bedroom. Don't deny your self just to follow what she wants either. How much weight has she put on? Pretend you're going to be late for something; make him run. I am one too. Most of my wife's family are fat too, especially the women. If you cook, start making more caloric meals--lots of carbs and fat. He said he's put on ~30 pounds in the last year. His waist was 35-36, now 44 and his belly hangs over his belt a lot. Actually, this is the main reason why so many people are reluctant to overcome their skinny fat because they think that looking good is all that matters. My 3 girls and I are also very big, like your wife and kids. Be well ladies. She seemed so confused with how Fat I became and continued to grow she didnt even seem to mind that she was now the heaviest she had ever been as well. Your second paragraph was unnecessary and sounds like excuses. One of the reasons I'm trying to get them to drop a few pounds is the clothing situation. Not super tall, but a tallish guy. My wife is plump, almost obese, I started to get a bit of a roll, as of late, she reached over, a few days ago, grabbed my baby bulge and said How cute, must be the mud pie and other deserts, I am proud of you. Now, I am very fit, or was, in the last year, still workout hard, but the bulge is growing. It would kill me to see them treated badly because their mom and I allowed them to become chubby. Copyright 20052023 ConfessionPost.com. I started binge eating during the pandemic and I have been struggling with my weight. Hes closing in on 300 pounds of blubber. It really sounds like you are both having a great time. I love to eat until I'm stuffed, wait awhile and feed my gut more as I grow into a 300 lb fat slob. are my parents right to lock me in my room as punishment for drinking underage . It's easy to think that if our boyfriend tells us that either he doesn't believe in marriage or he doesn't want to get married that he's going to change his mind. I'm a happy size 18 and I've always been a big girl at heart. At 31, I've been in a couple of long-term relationships before. Here is a picture of me when my wife fell in love with me: This is me and my wife now: Not every person is shallow. I fretted over that but he said he preferred by fatter and encouraged me to just eat what i want and so i did, which was really liberating for me. Or when I clean my plate, shell compliment me on doing a good job. Squeezing her belly roll for fit ladies to see! Just ask him how big he would like you to be. She seems to finally be accepting that shes just going to be a little more matronly. I've been married for the past 5 years and I was about 300lbs back then and now I've gained to a about 400lb . (Which is true, he has lost about an inch." How much ice cream can you eat at one sitting? she was beautiful 280 lb . So sweet! Its not my hubby getting fat, its me!! I'd been broken up with my on-and-off boyfriend of five years for about three months when I agreed to meet him for dinner. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. Today after a long day of cleaning my boyfriend comes home after dirt biking (we live together) and says to go for dinner. The world seems to be headed in that direction anyway. Does she like her new man with his manternity look? Id also love for you to go to therapy, but I know thats a longer process. And always provide dessert. All I do is look at bbw p*** now. My Ex Wants To Get Back Together. but I'm not sure I want to anymore. Outstanding! My girlfriend getting fatter and I like it: Four best reasons why: 1. I consider the two of us extremely lucky guys. Whats better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom? But yesterday his brother saw me and he said that I was fat. It feels so good, I can't describe it.Some of my friends and my doctor have been concerned, I mean, it's hard not to notice but we stay active with walks and hikes. It might be a hard process of bulking up and then cutting down. I want to admit to him, but I'm afraid. Dunno, half and half I guess. . Unfortunately when my wife wants her favorite high fat, high carb foods, the kids want to eat that as well and telling children that young that they cannot have what mommy is having or what their friends are having is kind of difficult. We all love to eat and we all love our fat and growing bodies as well. She currently weighed in last week at 417. Is your husband or boyfriend skinny or fat? 2. I want to be a My husband is getting fat and I love it! By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. Bloated belly rubs are amazing, both for the person with the chubby belly and the person getting to love and rub on it. It may take a bit of time for you to find yourself full-on, dying-to-bang attracted to him again, whether he loses weight or doesnt. I was chubby when I was a kid, so my parents sent me to fat camp. Im a big fat pig and getting fatter! On top of that, healthiness is not better than unhealthiness. 543 lbs and growing, and loving every new pound. I have always felt fat, but by America's standards, I am very underweight. I also have this fantasy about her being with a young, hard, fit man with a big p****, which I have shared with her and which is she game for - carefully, of course, it's just talk, now. 3. Cant even fake it - Im a tub o lard. Now you know why skinny fat is dangerous and what you should do to help your husband overcome it. I know my wife, who loves to eat too much to worry about how fat she is or will become, really started to pack on the pounds after she became friends with a coworker who is even fatter the she is. Hes stopped caring for a pet! After 1-2hrs you get off, they leave, and there's no clingy phonecalls, stalking or emotional problems like you would get trying to do this with somebody online or in a nightclub. My clothes have gotten tighter but he says he loves me the way I am, even suggesting I gain more weight. One told me, "Yeah, you didn't realize . What you must avoid is confessing that you're losing your attraction to him. I can't wait to wake up and see my fat beautiful wife every morning and every night we have wonderful s**. I'm surprise that child services has not removed your children from your care. We may not feel . Or she just loves you, wants you to be happy and doesnt care about your marriage waddle. Keeping the pounds off is one of the challenges of middle age. Over the years shes put on 100 pounds. At 5'-3" tall she was beautifully plump. And Im waddling more now than ever. I met my hubby at gym. At the time I weighs somewhere around 265-275. Or was your success part of your reason for letting loose? Make a podcast, YouTube or TikTok videos about our confessions and we'll promote your content, free! About 7 months ago I met this very sexy girl who is quite tall at 5'10" and so much fun and weighs 476 as of 5 days ago. Yeah, I gained during the pandemic, then added to that. It sounds like a sentence out of the mouth of every guy who . I can eat what I want when I want and my husband don't mind. Dear E. Jean: I adore my boyfriend of six years. 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